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Monday, January 12, 2009

isang panawagan...

copied from kalayaan97-98 at yahoogroups

Not sure if this is true...but worth the read!

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Paying It Back for Mang Meliton a.k.a "Mang Milton"
Posted by Mike on Dec 26, '08 10:06 PM

Meet Meliton Zamora, a retired University of the Philippines janitor and my hero.

For forty-five years, he swept floors, cleaned up trash, watered plants and did odd jobs at the University.

I met him when I was active with the UP Repertory Company, a theater group based (then) at the third floor lobby of the Arts & Sciences (AS) building. He would sweep and mop the hallway floors in silence, venturing only a nod and a smile whenever I passed him.

Back then, for me he was just one of those characters whom you got acquainted with and left behind as soon as you earned your degree and left the university for some big job in the real world. Someone whose name would probably ring a bell but whose face you'd have a hard time picturing. But for many UP students like me who were hard up and had a difficult time paying their tuition fees, Mang Mel was a hero who gave them the opportunity to finish university and get a big job in the real world.

The year was 1993 and I was on my last semester as a Clothing Technology student. My parents had been down on their luck and were struggling to pay for my tuition fee. I had been categorized as Bracket 9 in the recently implemented Socialized Tuiton and Financial Assistance Program (STFAP). My father had lost his job and to supplement my allowance, I worked part time as a Guest Relations Officer at Sam's Diner (back when the term GRO didn't have shady undertones) and took some odd jobs as a Production Assistant, movie extra and wardrobe mistress.

To be eligible for graduation, I had to enroll in my last three courses and pay my tuition fee. Since my parents didn't have enough money for my matriculation, I applied for a student loan hoping that my one of my Home Economics (HE) professors would take pity on me and sign on as a guarantor for the student loan. But those whom I approached either refused or were not eligible as guarantors. After two unsuccessful weeks of looking for a guarantor, my prospects looked dim, my future dark. And so, there I was, a downtrodden twenty year old with a foggy future, crying in the AS lobby. I only had twenty four hours left to look for a guarantor.

Mang Mel, with a mop in hand, approached me and asked me why I was crying. I told him I had no guarantor for my student loan and will probably not be able to enroll this semester. I had no hopes that he would be able to help me.. After all, he was just a janitor. He borrowed my loan application papers and said softly, "Puwede ako pumirma. Empleyado ako ng UP." He borrowed my pen and signed his name. With his simple act of faith, Mang Mel not only saved my day, he also saved my future.

I paid my student loan the summer after that fateful day with Mang Milton and it has been 15 years since then. I am not filthy rich but I do have a good job in the real world that allows me to support my family and eat three meals a day. A few weeks ago, a friend and UP Professor, Daki, told me that Mang Mel recently recorded an album which he sells to supplement his meager retirement pay, I asked another friend, Blaise, who's taking his Master's degree at UP to find out how we could contact Mang Mel.. My gesture of gratitude for Mang Mel's altruism has been long overdue. As fate would have it, my friend saw Mang Mel coming out of the shrubbery from behind the UP library, carrying firewood. He got Mang Mel's address and promised him that we would come over to buy his album.

Together with Blaise and my husband Augie, I went to pay Mang Mel a visit last Sunday.. Unfortunately, he was out doing a little sideline gardening for a UP professor in Tandang Sora. We were welcomed into their home by his daughter Kit. As she pointed out to a laminated photo of Mang Mel on the wall, she proudly told us that her father did retire with recognition from the University. However, she sadly related to us that many of the students whose loans Mang Mel guaranteed neglected to settle their student loans.. After forty-five years of service to the University, Mang Mel was only attributed 171 days of work for his retirement pay because all the unpaid student loans were deducted from his full retirement pay of about 675 days. This seems to me a cruel repayment for his kindness.

This is a cybercall to anyone who did not get to pay their student loans that were guaranteed by Mang Mel. Anytime would be a good time to show Mang Mel your gratitude. If you know any UP alumni in media, please ask them if they can feature this story so that UP alumni all over the world can know about it.

Mang Mel is not asking for a dole out, though I know he will be thankful for any assistance you can give. So I ask those of you who also benefited from Mang Meliton's goodness or for those who simply wish to share your blessings, please do visit Mang Mel and buy his CD (P350 only) at No. 16-A, Block 1, Pook Ricarte, U.P. Campus, Diliman, Quezon City (behind UP International House) or contact his daughter Kit V. Zamora at 0916-4058104.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

NICE THOUGHTS TO LIVE BY...

i got this somewhere in the internet (sorry forgot to get the webpage source ^^) and it's a nice read every, say, once a month to remind us of some important reasons why we are living...


As we grow up,

we learn

that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down,

probably will.

You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts.

You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them,

and you'll cry because time is flying by.

So take too many pictures,

laugh too much,

forgive freely,

and love like you've never been hurt.

Life comes with no guarantees,

no time outs, no second chances.

you just have to live life to the fullest,

tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out,

dance in the pouring rain,

hold someone's hand, comfort a friend,

fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late,

be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts.

Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love

and most of all,

live in the moment

because every second you spend angry or upset

is a second of happiness you can never get back.

Saturday, September 08, 2007

Life's A Bitch

Shooter

Everybody's tellin all,
baring their souls,
just to go on the Rikki Lake Show
Shoo-bi-doop-doop-why

Last night I turned the TV on,
you were booed off stage,
singin your famous love song
Why?

And tell me who makes the rules?

Shoulda been born on the Milky Way
Wanna belong to the world today
Oh, Life's a bitch and then ya die
Shoulda been born on the Milky Way
Can't believe what I heard today
Oh yeah, Life's a bitch and then ya die

Shoo-bi-doop-bow

I mean, while I got my magazine tellin me,
sellin me lies on how I could be the perfect ten
Shoo-bi-doop-doop-why

And my boyfriend left just the other day,
he's all messed up,
is he straight or is he gay
Shoo-bi-doop-doop-why

So tell me who makes the rules

Shoulda been born on the Milky Way
Wanna belong to the world today
Oh, Life's a bitch and then ya die
Shoulda been born on the Milky Way
Can't believe what I heard today
Oh yeah, Life's a bitch and then ya die

So if I fall
If I fall...oh...all

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Saturday, July 28, 2007

Way Back Into Love

Hugh Grant / Haley Bennett

I've been living with a shadow overhead

I've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed
I've been lonely for so long
Trapped in the past
I just can't seem to move on

I've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away
Just in case I ever need them again someday
I've been setting aside time
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
Oh oh oh

I've been watching but the stars refuse to shine
I've been searching but i just don't see the signs
I know that it's out there
There's got to be something for my soul somewhere

I've been looking for someone to shed some light
Not somebody just to get me through the night
I could use some direction
And I'm open to your suggestions

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart again
I guess I'm hoping you'll be there for me in the end

Oh oh oh

There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart to you
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do
And if you help me to start again
You know that I'll be there for you in the end

Oh oh oh

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Friday, May 04, 2007

my RAN character



SERVER:
fury

NAME:
sharkee2
CLASS:
Full Support Shaman

LEVEL:
96 104!
(BwaHaHa ^_^)


Monday, April 30, 2007

my first godchild with a highschool friend




Geanne Firenze L. Castro's Baptism

Sacred Heart Parish
Telebastagan, City of San Fernando
April 28, 2007




Throughout the whole ceremony, the little princess was peacefully asleep. if the baby was a darling, the mother was a real gem! we haven't had the chance to really talk but i felt that she's more than okay. and i even told Gaylord that he's soooo lucky to have Mary Anne as his life partner...

To Gaylord & Mary Anne (and baby Geanne): May the Lord forever bless your growing family. and whatever it is that you'd be needing (that i can provide ^^), be reminded always that i'm just a call away...

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Wednesday, April 25, 2007

our prayers are needed

i know i don't have a lot of readers here but this is one way i can think of to somehow help.

i know (ate) Emilyn Bueno-Cortez, a batch older from Chevalier School, as a sweet lady and her husband is a friend's older brother. when i learned of their only son's condition from this site

http://givehelp-erryl.epinoy.com/

i can't stop my tears. though i haven't met their kid Eryll yet and i am not particularly close to them, simply, a six-year-old boy doesn't deserve his present condition.

monetary help is needed badly, however, prayers are needed more. let us all help in any way we can... thanks! ΓΌ